I am sorry that you had to go through that! I can't imagine how horrible it must have felt.
As was said before...some times young guys do stupid things...BUT when they are in their TEENAGE Years!
Unbelievable that grown men and FATHERS did this.....imagine what went on behind closed doors if they could do that in front of a small group?! Which as you said, their wives left for a reason!
This also explains why there are so many a$$hole men in position of power in this organization...look at
the examples some Fathers have left them!